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Should you plan for divorce even before you get married?

There comes a point in every relationship when the couple starts to think about the future. They have to decide if this is the person that they want to spend the rest of their lives with. If so, they may begin making plans to get married and start a family. This is often a very happy and excited time for the couple, and they think about what their life will be like together. They often give little thought to what would happen if the marriage ends up not working out.

Unfortunately, this lack of planning is something that ends up causing many people problems if they have to get a divorce. This can lead to costly litigation over the couple’s assets, and make the divorce much more painful and stressful for everyone involved. This post discusses some of the steps that you can take to avoid some of the issues that can arise during and after your divorce.

Three things you can do to help your child cope with your divorce

When parents go through a divorce, there is a tremendous impact upon their children. Kids are often confused about why the marriage is failing, and they may even think that they caused these problems.

So many times, people find themselves fighting over everything and they lose sight of the toll that this is taking on their children. In this post, we provide you with a few things that you can do to help your child understand what is happening. 

¿Por qué es tan importante la relación con su abogado de divorcio?

Antes de contratar a un abogado para que te represente en tu divorcio, es importante entender que se convertirán en socios, para bien o para mal, y quizás durante años después del proceso de divorcio. Qué tan bien funciona su asociación puede tener un efecto enorme en el proceso y en cuánto tendrá que gastar en honorarios legales. Haz todo lo posible para contratar al abogado adecuado, examina tus metas antes intentar alcanzarlas. ¿Quieres tener un proceso sin problemas o uno conflictivo? Determina lo que quieres para ti, tus hijos y tu ex. Después de tu conversación inicial con un abogado de divorcio, debes ser capaz de responder a estas preguntas:

Why is the relationship with your divorce lawyer so important?

Before you hire a family lawyer to represent you in your divorce, you need to understand that you and your lawyer will become partners, for better or for worse, during and perhaps for years after the divorce process. How well your partnership works can have an enormous effect on your divorce and how much you'll have to spend in legal fees. So make every effort to hire the right lawyer. Examine your goals before going to one. Do you want to be generous or nail your ex to the wall? Look to your future and determine what you want for yourself, your kids, and your ex.

5 famosos que se recuperaron de la bancarrota

1. Abraham LincolnLincoln intentó muchas ocupaciones como un hombre joven, incluyendo la compra de un almacén general en New Salem, Illinois, en 1832. Él y su compañero comenzaron a comprar inventarios otras tiendas a crédito, pero sus propias ventas eran bajas. A medida que las deudas de la tienda aumentaban, Lincoln vendió su parte, pero cuando su compañero murió, el futuro presidente se hizo responsable de $1,000 dólares en pagos atrasados. Lincoln no tenía leyes modernas de bancarrota para protegerlo, así que cuando sus acreedores lo llevaron a los tribunales, perdió sus dos activos restantes: un caballo y un equipo de topografía. Eso no fue suficiente para pagar su factura, y Lincoln continuó pagando sus deudas hasta bien entrados los1840s.

5 Famous people that recovered from bankruptcy

1. Abraham LincolnLincoln tried many occupations as a young man, including buying a general store in New Salem, Illinois, in 1832. He and his partner started buying out other stores' inventories on credit, but their own sales were dismal. As the store's debts mounted, Lincoln sold his share, but when his partner died, the future President became liable for $1,000 in back payments. Lincoln didn't have modern bankruptcy laws to protect him, so when his creditors took him to court, he lost his two remaining assets: a horse and some surveying gear. That wasn't enough to foot his bill, though, and Lincoln continued paying off his debts until well into the 1840s.

5 Celebrities Who Have Lost Millions

1. In his days as an NBA player, Dennis Rodman had a salary of $ 27 million, not counting his advertising deals. After leaving the NBA, Rodman had trouble paying his bills, in addition to the maintenance of his children; which is why he ended up in court for the $ 809,000 he owed his third wife for child support and $ 51,000 for spousal support.

5 Famosos que han perdido millones

1. En sus días como jugador de la NBA, Dennis Rodman tenía un salario de 27 millones de dólares, sin contar sus acuerdos publicitarios. Después de dejar la NBA, Rodman tenía problemas para pagar sus cuentas, además de la manutención de sus hijos; es por ello que terminó en corte por los 809,000 dólares que le debía a su tercer esposa por manutención y 51,000 dólares por manutención conyugal.

Los 5 matrimonios más cortos

Uno de los matrimonios más cortos sucedió en Arabia Saudita en mayo de 2016, cuando el novio solicitó el divorcio minutos después de su boda porque la novia se rehusó a dejar a un lado el celular y prestarle atención. Después de la ceremonia, la pareja se dirigió a un hotel para consumar su matrimonio, sin embargo, la novia quería continuar respondiendo los mensajes de amigos felicitándolos por la boda; fue entonces cuando el novio enfurecido le preguntó si sus amigos eran más importantes que él, y la novia respondió que sí. La discusión se salió de control, tanto que minutos después el novio ya estaba demandando el divorcio.

5 shortest marriages ever

One of the shorter marriages happened in Saudi Arabia in May of 2016, when the groom filed for divorce minutes after his wedding because the bride refused to leave her the cell phone aside and pay attention to him. After the ceremony, the couple went to a hotel to consummate their marriage, however, the bride wanted to respond to her friend's text and messages congratulating them on their wedding; it was then when the enraged groom asked her if her friends were more important than him and the bride answered yes. The argument went out of control, so much so that minutes later the man was already demanding a divorce.

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